March 23, 2010Acceptance Affirmation Accountability Authority
March 24, 2010We should steer away from thinking of a group of people and instead see people as individuals. Although there are common threads in homosexuality, everyone is a unique person with unique motivations and thoughts.
I have been living with my boyfriend for the past year and now have a very strong desire to do what is right. Should I separate from him and pray that he will accept the Lord?
March 24, 2010Randy would encourage you to move out and not to marry your boyfriend until he becomes a committed follower of Christ. You cannot violate the scriptures and expect God to bless the union.
My fiancé and I have been sexually active, have repented, and really desire to be obedient to God, but continually return to the same sin.
March 24, 2010You must recognize your vulnerability and protect yourself from situations where you are tempted.
March 25, 2010In 1988, George Michael won a Grammy award for his album Faith. This disc featured sexually graphic songs, the most controversial being ‘I Want Your Sex.’ Apparently teens were listening to Mr. Michael. That same year, the Centers for Disease Control surveyed teens and learned that 50% of males and 37% of females aged 15-17 had gotten sex sometime during their short lifetime. While a generation of teens was learning to just say no to drugs during the 80s, many of them were saying yes to sex.
I'm concerned how young women are dressing these days, especially Christian young women. What's going on?
March 25, 2010Modesty is not a characteristic of women in our culture (and even in our churches!) And, it’s not just an issue for young women, although that is a time when women often develop their habits and lifestyles. Unfortunately, there are so many moms and even grandmas who don’t seem to have a grasp on the issue. The sad thing is that according to Titus 2:3-5, one of the things the older women are to teach the younger women is how to be pure (or chaste) so that the word of God will not be blasphemed. And 1 ...
March 29, 2010Video of young men from Randy's home church speaking on sexual purity.
March 29, 2010Sexual intimacy with your marriage partner that doesn’t involve intercourse is not "masturbation". “Masturbation” means sex that involves only yourself.
Is there hope for a teenage guy who struggles with lust and masturbation to be able to stop sinning and be free of the guilt and temptations?
March 29, 2010One thing I know about the struggle with lust is that the more you feed it, the more it will desire to be fed and the more it will consume you.
March 29, 2010Right now, in your moment of strength, make choices that will serve you well in your moment of weakness.