A Spirit of Entitlement Is One of the Greatest Enemies of True Happiness

© Photo: Unsplash

Though all of us, if asked, might say that we don’t have any more right to a perfect and pain-free life than the next person, in our own hearts and minds, we tend to believe that we do. So, when forced to suffer, even mature believers can feel driven to question God’s motives, or perhaps even His existence! We imagine that if we are faithful and obedient to God, He will reward us with an easy life. However, God doesn’t promise pain-free lives—He only promises His presence and the provision of all we need to endure our hardships.

Entitlement is one of the ugliest words in the English language. It is the ultimate recipe for unhappiness. Nothing is more poisonous or contagious than the spirit of entitlement. And nothing can correct it but Scripture itself. Consider these verses from 1 Peter:

  •  “…If when you do good and suffer for it you endure, this is a gracious thing in the sight of God. For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps” (2:20-21).
  • “Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you share Christ’s sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad, when his glory is revealed” (4:12-13).
  • “Therefore let those who suffer according to God’s will entrust their souls to a faithful Creator while doing good” (4:19).  

We don’t suffer despite the fact that we are Christians, but sometimes because we are Christians. Contrary to the claims of prosperity theology, we have actually been “called” to suffer. While suffering we are not to despair, but look to the example of Christ who suffered for us for the sake of God’s greater glory and our ultimate, eternal happiness!

We must remember that our happiness is limited in this life, but unlimited in the life to come. A “normal day” as resurrected people on the New Earth will be far better than the best day we have experienced in a world under the Curse.

Randy Alcorn (@randyalcorn) is the author of over sixty books and the founder and director of Eternal Perspective Ministries

Topics